What's he got that I ain't got?

He took her away before I even realised. Right in front of my eyes. Now I'm not even able to figure out what happened and when it all happened. Why him? He's not a good guy! She can't be with him. She was supposed to come to me. Why do all bad things happen only to me? I'm a nice guy. And he's got nothing in him. This is just not the way things are meant to be.

Oh shut your trap, will you! I'll give you two things to choose from. You'll make the choice right now. And you will stick to it. Here you go. Which of these do you want to be, a Crybaby or a Man? Choose one. Quick!

Let's see. If you chose to be a crybaby, close this blog right now. Throw away all your hopes of finding a hot chick to date. Go help your mom or something. I've heard cooking is fun. You could try your hand at it. And there's yoga too. Helps you gain perspective in life. Damn you, bimbo! You've got it inside you, you're not trying that's all. So why don't you close the blog now, take your own sweet time turning into a man and then get back here to learn and play the real game. But if you chose to be a man, you've already taken your first step. Congrats! Now hop on, let's see what lies on the other side.

There's no rule that says women like the 'bad' men. They love nice guys. Ones that are true gentlemen. Ones that will be good to them and only to them. Then why do we only see the bad guys walking away with all the hot women. Simple. Its based on attraction. Just like your tiny little brother between your legs tells you instantly if a woman is attractive, they have their own kind of attraction radar. We, the men, are attracted only by beauty, in all its various forms. For women, its not muscle or brain or virility but sheer confidence, again in all its various forms. Its straightforward if you think about it. The men that make it to the top of the world are the ones that are very high in their confidence level. They are the ones that knew right from before they started that they'll make it up there. And if they've made it to the top, they've got to be the best, right? Seems like women do have a little of brain inside them. Anyway. Now the bad news is that statistically, the bad guys exude more confidence. They know what they are and they are perfectly fine being what they are. They know they are right in whatever they do. But the good news is that to have or build confidence, you do not have to be a bad guy. In fact, you've got more in you than the bad guys to be confident about yourself, and hence to be incredibly attractive to women. Its time you turned it on.

Confidence is the way to go. Not just with women but with every other game on earth - money, fame, respect, power, and an endless list of other things. So what is the secret behind gaining it? If you've noticed the battle scenes in movies, the men right at the front run straight ahead towards the enemy with complete force. They know they are the weakest in defense. They know they will die. And an unimaginably painful death. But that won't stop them because all they have in their minds is that they will win the battle no matter what. They don't think of the consequences or about what they will face a few moments later because at that very moment none of those things matter. Only one thing. Go for the kill. And they know they are doing it right. Because the only other way is to succumb to fear, which gives nothing but the word 'loser' written all over your face with lipstick. You want something, you get it. Be a man. None of your actions are going to be wrong. You are right. And you know you are right. What you are is the way to be. Are you 5 feet tall? Yeah damn right, you are 5 feet tall. All those 6 feet tall dudes are bamboo shoots. Milk better than beer? To hell with the ones that think beer gives them manhood. If you're the kind that gets picked on by bullies, stop getting picked on by those jobless losers. If you are shy with strangers, stop being shy because you don't have a reason to be it. People keep judging you and making opinions about you, but they don't matter to you. You are what you are and that's the way to be. And that, my friend, is the meaning of confidence. Its probably obvious now why the bad guys have it in abundance. Your turn now.