Welcome!
Let's learn everything about women and soon get to the dating game. Before getting to the real deal, here are a few guidelines to help you look through the blog. I make it a point to post atleast once everyday. Every post is categorised under the following sections, games I call them, because that's what its all about.

Gear Up: The war within your head. The game you have to play with yourself to learn about what lies ahead.
Coffee: The game of approach and first impressions.
Dinner: The time you start turning tables. The tuning. The direction to take.
Relationships: The name says it all. The way to keep her in place and get whatever you want out of her.

That's about everything there is. Go ahead, make the best out of it. Have fun and good luck.

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Get into her mind

Time to get her to start thinking about you. Constantly! Women love to be seen around with great guys. If you are a man of confidence, they'd do just anything just to be seen around you. It feeds their pride. Like I mentioned in one of my earlier posts, they want to be of worth. This explains why they love to be desired. And they can't stand it when a guy stops feeling for them or is getting over them. And this does not matter whether or not this guy is another Brad Pitt. It hurts their pride just to know that someone does not find them worthy of being dreamed about any longer. So what do we do about all of this knowledge about women now. Of course, we use it!

You need only one prerequisite for using this perfectly effective trick. You need to get acquainted with the woman you are going after. Even a short conversation at a random meeting will do. Yeah yeah you do need her phone number, you get nowhere without it. Anyway. Once you have this in hand, you are ready to conquer her mind. Let's do it. Why don't you give yourself an evil smile before getting on to it. Yeah!!

You met her last night. You told her you'll call. What next? Wake up next day and wish her good morning? Or maybe wait till evening so she won't think you live a lonely life? Wait, you desperate freak! Patience is a virtue only guys with gentlemanly traits possess. If this is the first girl you've ever exchanged phone numbers with, make it the perfect debut. Don't settle! Get everything out of it. Don't worry, she's not going anywhere. Now wait for a day or two. Do your work. Finish up everything you piled up last week. Play your video games. Give your car a shine. And then, when you are done with everything and you get idle, remember her. Call her. Talk. Have a good chat. Ask things about her. Don't tell her anything about what you've been upto unless she asks. You don't have to prove yourself to her. Imagine what it would be like to get her into a state where she'll be dying to know more about you but you won't tell. Pitch in a compliment or two, not an ounce more. Keep it natural and straight. You are talking to her because you have nothing else to do. Get into this attitude and she'll see it right through you, its a woman's inborn talent. And when she starts getting interested in the conversation, tell her your friend has come to visit you and you have to hang up. There! You've done it. You've started hurting her pride. She'll think. She'll start worrying. Am I not worthy enough? Do I lack something? Time to give yourself another evil snicker. Haha.

You keep this flow going and you'll keep the phone calls coming. Make her call you, you've got your bills to pay. Cut her off at times because you are busy with something else. Tell her you'll call an hour later. Call her back two hours later. And if she happens to do the same, don't pick up when she doesn't call on time. Of course you don't pick up. She called when she wasn't supposed to, when you had your favorite program on TV going on! And one day when you have the entire evening off, ask her out for dinner. If you've done this much, she'll be spending half her day thinking about you. And they say women are difficult!

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